Long-Distance Lovebirds, Get Ready for a Marathon of Connection!
We’ve got something special in store for you—a massive list of 500 questions that partners in a long-distance relationship should ask each other.
Buckle up and prepare for a crazy journey through thought-provoking, heartwarming, and sometimes downright silly questions that will spark deep conversations, endless laughter, and a whole lot of bonding. Whether you’re just starting your long-distance adventure or have been going strong for years, these questions will reignite the magic and strengthen the unbreakable bond between you and your partner.
From exploring your dreams and aspirations to navigating the challenges of LDRs, from diving deep into your values and beliefs to uncovering your favorite quirky habits—this list has it all! We’ve curated these questions with the sole purpose of helping you discover new dimensions of each other, nurturing the emotional connection that knows no boundaries.
So, grab a cozy spot, get your partner on the line, and get ready to embark on an epic conversation marathon! We’ve got 500 questions that will surprise, delight, and make you fall in love all over again. Let’s dive into this delightful pool of curiosity, intimacy, and endless possibilities. Together, let’s uncover the secrets of your hearts and create memories that will transcend the miles between you.
Ready? Set? Let the question extravaganza begin!
500+ Long Distance Relationship Questions to Ask Your Partner
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Do you feel loved?
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At what point in our relationship did you feel most loved?
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Do you trust me completely? Why or why not?
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Do you think I trust you completely?
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Are you afraid I’ll cheat on you?
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Are you afraid of cheating on me someday?
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When was the last time you felt jealous?
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How can I make you feel even more loved when we’re not together?
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Do you regret starting this long-distance relationship?
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What makes you doubt our long-distance relationship?
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Do you sometimes feel that being in a long-distance relationship limits your social and professional life?
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What do you like least about being in a long-distance relationship?
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What’s your favorite thing about being in a long-distance relationship?
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How can I help you more in your projects?
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Where and when are we going to meet again next time?
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Do we have enough money to see each other again soon?
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How can we save money for our reunion?
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How can we improve our communication?
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What is the current state of our communication habits (frequency, tools, etc.)? Should we change them?
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What would you like to learn about me that you don’t already know?
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What would you like us to discover together?
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What activities or virtual meetings would you like us to try out?
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What are the next events and parties we could celebrate?
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What’s the next step we need to take to move towards the end of this long-distance relationship?
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What’s our main goal as a couple?
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Is living a long-distance relationship easier or harder than you thought?
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What is our couple’s greatest weakness?
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What is our couple’s greatest strength?
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Where will we be in six months? A year from now? Two years from now?
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Where would you like to be in five years? Ten years from now?
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When would you like to be over the distance?
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When do you reasonably think we’ll be over the distance?
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Do you think I’m involved enough in our relationship?
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Are you fully involved in our relationship?
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Could we make more of an effort to reduce the distance?
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Are you looking forward to our life together?
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Do you believe in long-distance love?
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If one of your friends was hesitant about starting a long-distance relationship, what would you recommend? Why or why not?
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What advice would you give to someone starting a long-distance relationship?
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Which of my qualities do you prefer?
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What character trait would you prefer I didn’t have?
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Does your family support you in this long-distance relationship?
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Do your friends support you in your long-distance relationship?
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Since the beginning of our relationship, do you feel that we’ve grown as a couple? In what way?
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Do you feel you’ve learned anything through this relationship? What have you learned?
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What would you like to change in our relationship?
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What would you like to change about yourself?
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What are you most looking forward to in the months and years ahead?
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What are our goals as a couple for the coming months?
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Are you fulfilled despite the distance?
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In your opinion, what are my qualities and talents? Do you think you have the same?
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Have you ever struggled? If so, why?
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Have you ever lost someone very dear to you? How did you get over it?
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What are you most afraid of? Does it prevent you from doing anything?
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Is it easy for you to wake up every morning?
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Have you ever hitchhiked?
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Does it scare you to express yourself in public?
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How do you react when you’re upset?
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When do you think physical violence is tolerable?
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How do you usually react when someone criticizes you?
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Do you ever feel selfish? About what?
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Do you think you can react calmly and wisely in an emergency? Do you have any examples?
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Do you have one or more pets?
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Do you have a dream that repeats itself over and over again? What’s it about?
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Which feeling do you find most difficult to control?
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Which feeling do you find most difficult to express?
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How do you think I would react in stressful situations?
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If you could choose to know everything about a subject, what area would you choose?
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How do you know if you’re happy? Sad?
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Are you an organized person?
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If a fire destroys your house, what do you do? If you could take three things before the fire, what would it be?
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If you were a very talented writer and were guaranteed to sell 100,000 copies of any book you wrote, what subject would you choose?
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What’s your favorite season of the year?
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Do you love your first name? If you could and wanted to change your name, what would you choose?
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When you’re ill, do you prefer to be alone or surrounded?
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If you could choose another country of origin, which would it be?
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If you were given $20,000 to organize a party, what would you do?
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Are you more of a morning person or a night person?
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Do you think you’re different from other men and women your age?
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Do you adapt easily to change? For example?
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Do you ever behave like a child? About what?
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Are you generally optimistic or pessimistic?
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Do you often cry? Mainly in what situations?
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What makes you feel safe?
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Are you the kind of person who analyzes everything before making a decision, or do you follow your instincts?
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How do you like to spend your evenings with friends?
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Do you prefer “big” parties or more intimate ones?
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Are you more introverted or extroverted?
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Do you tend to keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself or share them openly?
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Are you hot-blooded?
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Do you give money to beggars and the homeless?
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What makes you happy?
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When do you think you’ll be ready to get married?
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Do you worry about other people’s opinions?
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Most of the time, do you choose to follow your emotions or your logic?
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In what circumstances do you feel most at peace?
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What do you like best about being a man or a woman?
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If you could be President of the Republic, what 3 decisions would you make to improve the country?
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If you were given 1 million dollars, what would you do with it?
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Do you like hugs?
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In general, do you like to be touched?
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What are the 3 things you’ve done that make you most proud?
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Was there ever a moment when you felt you were going to lose me?
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How would you react if someone cheated on you? Could you forgive?
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Can you keep secrets?
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Has anyone ever given you an inferiority complex?
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Do you think luck has played a big part in your life?
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Are you afraid of being alone?
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What makes you nostalgic?
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What do you miss most about your childhood?
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Do you have an idol? How did they inspire you?
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Do you see yourself more as a leader or a follower?
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In the last five years, what has changed in your personal life?
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What has been the biggest change in your life?
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What’s the most common thing you worry about?
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Do you ever talk behind people’s backs?
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Would you rather be deaf, dumb or blind? Why?
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Is there anything you can’t resist (chocolate, ice cream, fast food, etc.)?
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Do you consider yourself sensitive?
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Do you prefer to solve problems alone most of the time, or ask for help?
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What’s most important to you in life?
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Do you consider yourself more mature than the average person?
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What’s your biggest flaw? What do you do to mitigate it?
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What has been your biggest disappointment in life?
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Have you ever worked really hard for something that didn’t pay off in the end?
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Do you have a place somewhere that’s particularly dear to you?
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Are you trustworthy?
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Do you prefer competition or cooperation?
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Do you like to be teased?
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Do you have daily rituals?
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Do you accept disagreement?
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In what areas of your life do you feel dependent on others?
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Do you enjoy debating with others?
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Do you consider yourself lucky?
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What usually makes you angry?
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On what subjects do you feel qualified to give advice?
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What’s your #1 talent?
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Do you keep a diary?
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Can you play a musical instrument? Which instrument?
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Would you like to become famous? Would it make any difference to your married life?
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If you knew you were going to die in 2 days, what would you do?
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How long can you stay totally alone without breaking down?
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For you, what makes a life worth living?
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What makes you want to get up every morning?
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Do you think I look like my family? In what way?
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What makes you want to cry in general?
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Are you more like your mother or your father?
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If you could change 3 things in our society, what would you choose?
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If you could relive one year of your life, which would it be?
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What kind of gifts do you prefer?
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Do you know your neighbors?
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Have you ever lived alone? Did you like it?
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What’s the best gift you’ve ever received? Why?
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Do you think it’s normal to read your partner’s e-mails and messages?
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Do you feel you’re wasting your time because of the distance?
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Are you punctual?
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Are you reliable?
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How do your friends describe you? What about your family?
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What do you like most about me?
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What’s your favorite band? And your favorite artist?
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Do you like fast food? Do you go there often? What’s your favorite food?
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Do you remember what your favorite books were as a child?
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What’s your favorite movie? Style of film? Director? Actor?
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Do you like alcohol? What’s your favorite alcoholic drink?
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What’s your favorite food? Drink? Dessert?
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What’s your favorite and least favorite day of the week?
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What’s your favorite time of day?
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What type of cuisine do you prefer?
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What’s your favorite country? What’s your favorite city?
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Do you have any phobias?
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What’s your opinion on vaccines?
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Have you ever tried drugs?
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Do you have any bad habits?
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Do you smoke? If so, have you tried to quit? How often do you smoke?
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Do you drink too much alcohol?
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Can you say “no” when you know you’ve had one too many? Have you ever driven drunk?
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Have you ever done stupid or dangerous things while drunk?
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Have you ever been depressed?
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Have you ever considered suicide?
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Do you think certain drugs should be legalized?
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What dish would you like me to try?
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Are you a patient person?
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Do you have a particular illness?
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Do you consider yourself fit?
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Do you live to eat or eat to live?
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How many hours a night do you sleep?
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Are you on a diet?
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Do you get sick often? Which illnesses?
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Do you take medication?
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Are family meals important to you?
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Do you play sports? How often? Which sports?
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Do you prefer to cook for yourself or eat something ready-made?
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Do you mind people helping themselves to your food when you’re in a restaurant?
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Does the smell of tobacco bother you?
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Is eating organic important to you?
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Do you drink coffee? On a regular basis?
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Do you have any allergies?
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Have you ever been hospitalized?
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Would having different political opinions affect our relationship?
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Have you ever committed a crime?
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What do you think of adult movies? Do you watch them?
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Have you ever joined a protest for a cause?
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Which political party do you usually vote for?
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Are you involved in politics?
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Are you religious?
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Would you steal anything of value if you were sure you couldn’t be traced?
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Have you ever stolen anything? What was it?
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What’s the stupidest thing you’ve ever done?
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How would you react if one of your children was homosexual?
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Are there any communities you don’t feel close to?
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Do you ever go to the casino? Do you gamble a lot?
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Does foul language bother you?
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In your experience, do you think people learn from their mistakes?
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Should everyone be given a second chance?
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Do you think most people are trustworthy and honest?
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Do you ever lie?
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What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told? What happened next?
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Do you care about ecology?
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Is the animal cause important to you?
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Have you ever been on a nudist beach?
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Have you ever performed on stage (music, theater, etc.)?
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Were you in bad company when you were at school?
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What kind of teenager were you?
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Were you a good student?
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How did you spend your time as a child?
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What are the things you’d absolutely like to do before you die?
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What are your three goals for this year?
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What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
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What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever wanted to do?
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What’s the craziest thing you’ve done in the name of love?
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When have I ever made you doubt my feelings?
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Are you a romantic?
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Do you like giving massages? Do you like receiving them?
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Do you find it awkward when couples kiss in public?
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How do you express your love for someone?
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Do you think I’m romantic enough?
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What’s the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for you?
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What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done?
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Have you ever written a love letter?
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What does “romantic” mean to you?
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Is it difficult for you to say “I love you”?
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Would you like me to say “I love you” more often?
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Where would you like to go on a trip together?
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Do your parents support you in what you do?
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Do your friends support our long-distance relationship?
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Do you get on well with all the members of your family?
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Are you particularly close to any of your parents?
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Do you think your parents like me?
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Is family important to you?
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What’s an average day like for you?
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Have you ever made decisions that went against your family’s wishes?
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Have you changed much since high school?
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What’s the most important thing your parents have ever said to you?
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What’s the difference between good and bad parents?
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Where did you grow up?
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Would you rather live in the city or the country?
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Do you believe in the future?
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Do your friends influence your everyday choices?
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Do you have any brothers or sisters? How are things with them?
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What do you expect from the person you’ll be spending the rest of your life with?
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What was your favorite thing to do as a child?
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What’s the biggest battle your family has ever faced? Is it all settled?
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Are you jealous of any of your friends?
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What lessons have you learned from watching your parents?
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Do you think you’ll be a good parent?
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Do you think that because you’re in a relationship, you spend less time with your friends? Does it bother you?
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Have you ever had to deal with conflicts in your family?
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Do you get on well with your grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins?
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Where does your family come from?
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Do you like your family name?
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Are you satisfied with the quality and quantity of your circle of friends?
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Do the people close to you influence our relationship?
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Who is your best friend?
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What do you appreciate most about this person?
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Are there any taboos in your family?
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Can you do two (or more) things at once?
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Do you think we talk too much by text message?
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Are there any subjects you’d rather discuss with your friends than as a couple? Why?
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What’s the best way to calm down?
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Have I disappointed you recently?
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Have I surprised you recently?
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What topics would you like to talk about more often?
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How can I tell when you don’t feel like talking?
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Which do you prefer: text, phone or Skype?
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Do I have to answer every one of your messages?
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Do you take it badly if I take time to answer?
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If you’re sulking, should I leave you alone or come and talk to you?
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If there are things I don’t want to share, can you understand?
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Do you think I’m monopolizing the conversation too much, or that I keep cutting you off?
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Did your family share their feelings openly when you were a child?
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What do you think of people who take 10 minutes to say something that takes 30 seconds?
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Do you like to talk about yourself?
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Do you think people talk too much about themselves?
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Do I have to keep telling you where I’m going so you don’t worry?
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What subject(s) would you like me to talk to you about more openly?
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Do you think we’re on the right track to success?
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Have you ever been in a long-distance relationship before?
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What did you think of long-distance love before we became a couple?
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If you had to do it all over again, would you do it exactly the same way?
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What frustrates you most at the moment?
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What’s most important to you?
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What do you love most about me?
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Do you think you could give up your current life and go around the world for someone or for a job?
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Do you like your boss?
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What was your first job?
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Is it possible to call you when you’re at work?
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How do you see your career?
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What was your best job?
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Is it possible to mix work and love?
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If you could choose any job you wanted and still get paid very well, what would you do?
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What’s more important: looks or intelligence?
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Who is the person who inspires you most?
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What studies have you completed?
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Do you plan to stay in the same job for years to come?
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Do you love your job?
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How many hours do you work in total?
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How did you choose your vocation?
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In your opinion, do diplomas still matter?
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If you were rich and single, how would you eliminate suitors who were only interested in money?
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What’s the biggest expense you’ve ever had to pay?
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Are you the type to buy luxury goods?
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If you were in financial difficulty, what would you do to get out of it?
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If you inherited $200,000, what would you do with it?
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Does money count in a couple?
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Do you have debts to pay?
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If your monthly income doubled, what would you do differently?
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Have you ever lent someone a large sum of money?
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What’s the best investment you’ve ever made?
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What does “rich” mean to you?
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Should you share your money as a couple?
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Who pays for what?
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Are you obsessed with money?
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Can you describe me in 5 words?
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Why do you want to get married one day?
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Do we say “I love you” too much or too little?
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What do you think is the secret to a lasting marriage?
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Is there anything you’ve always wanted to tell me?
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Does loving scare you?
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How long does it take to be sure of your feelings?
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Could you live the rest of your life with me?
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Who would you like me to meet?
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Do you think we spend enough time together?
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How would you react if I spent less time with you because of my work?
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How can I help you achieve your dreams?
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Do you miss being single?
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Is it important for a couple’s relationship to begin with a friendship between the partners?
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Who was your worst ex?
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Do you have any memories of your exes?
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What do you like least about men? In women?
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Would you mind if I was friends with my ex?
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Would you allow your widower to remarry?
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How do you feel when we spend the day together?
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Do you think you’ll be a good husband or wife?
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Do you prefer to go out with people younger or older than you?
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Is the opposite sex a mystery to you?
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Have you ever experienced a painful break-up?
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Do you mind if I go clubbing without you?
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Have you ever gone through someone’s phone?
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Do you think arguments are dangerous or healthy for a couple?
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Have you ever cheated on an ex?
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Are you capable of making efforts and concessions for your relationship?
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What did you like least about your exes?
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What does “cheating” mean to you?
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What’s the difference between love and love at first sight?
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What did your exes reproach you for?
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How do you react if the woman earns more than the man?
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Why did you fall in love with me?
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What most often causes arguments between us?
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Do you feel pressured to get married?
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Is it possible to justify infidelity in a couple?
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What did you think of me when we first met?
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Do you like to flirt? Do you miss it?
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Most couples get divorced. Do you think we’ll be the exception?
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How would you react if I yelled at you or slapped you?
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What do you think is the best way to deal with disagreement in a couple?
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If I asked you to spend less time with certain people, would you do it?
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Have I ever behaved badly towards you?
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What was your longest relationship?
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What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever received?
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What kind of people have you dated before?
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How many people have you dated before?
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Do you think jealousy is a good thing?
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What do you think makes couples happy?
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Would you support me if I wanted to quit my job and start my own business overnight?
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How could I make your life easier and more enjoyable?
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Do you think I manage our relationship well?
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Could you accept an endless long-distance relationship, for example because of work (missions abroad)?
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What prevents you from relaxing and enjoying our relationship?
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Do you feel that I’m trying to change you?
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Do you sometimes need to be alone? Regularly?
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Do you have any preferences for your children’s names?
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What rules will your children have to obey (going out, Internet, TV, etc.)?
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What do you think your children will be like?
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Does a couple have to be financially secure to have children?
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At what age can you talk to your children about sex?
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Why do some adults decide not to have children? Do you think it’s selfish?
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Is it wrong to get drunk in front of your children?
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Should the husband help and take care of the baby as much as the mother?
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Should your child play sports? Which sports?
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How should decisions be made in the family? Who has the last word?
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Were your parents affectionate with you?
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How many years of marriage do you think it takes to have a child?
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Is it important for the father to be present at the birth?
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How would you react if you had only boys or only girls?
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How would you react if your child was homosexual?
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Did you receive pocket money when you were a child?
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Should the child be named after the father or mother?
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What would you do if your child was born disabled?
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Do you think it’s a social obligation to have children and be married?
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Do you think that having children can harm a couple?
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How many children would you like to have?
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Do you plan to raise your children the way you were raised?
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Do you have to sacrifice everything for your children?
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What are the good reasons for having children? What are the bad ones?
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At what age is it too old to have children?
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Should you be strict or flexible with your children?
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What kind of upbringing would you give your children?
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Would you let your child smoke? Or drink?
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Are you for or against abortion?
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How many people would you like to invite to your wedding?
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What kind of wedding would you like to have?
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Who would you like to invite to your wedding?
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Do you think the woman should take the man’s surname?
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How do you imagine your honeymoon?
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What’s the difference between sex and intimacy?
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Could you make love at your parents’ home or in an apartment with roommates?
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What would you do if the man had a problem with premature ejaculation or erection?
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Do you prefer to make love in the morning or in the evening?
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Do you like to talk dirty during sex?
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Can a relationship work if it doesn’t work in bed? What would you do?
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What should I do to give you more pleasure?
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How many times a week would you like to make love?
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What kind of foreplay do you prefer?
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Do you like cuddling after sex?
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Is it hard for you to talk about sex and your preferences?
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Have you ever made love outdoors? Do you feel like it?
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What songs make you want to have sex?
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How would you define sexual satisfaction?
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Have you ever been photographed or filmed naked?
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How would you react if I told you I wasn’t in the mood for sex?
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What are your fantasies?
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What underwear do you find sexy?
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Which method of contraception do you prefer?
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What body parts do you fantasize about?
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Do you prefer “making love” or “fucking” most of the time?
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Have you ever had an STD? Have you ever been tested?
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Does size really matter?
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Do you masturbate? How often?
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What’s your favorite position?
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Do you prefer to make love in the dark, with candles or with the lights on?
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Do you watch porn? How often?
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Are you addicted to pornography?
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How can I make you understand when I want to make love?
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Do you like naughty games?
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Have you ever had a one-night stand? How did it happen? Do you regret it?
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Are there any scents that turn you on?
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Do you think sex is too present in our society?
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Are you a sex addict?
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Are you for or against waiting until marriage to have sex?
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What do you think kills love during sex?
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Is it possible to make love too often?
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How can we improve our foreplay?
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Do you talk about sex with your friends?
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Are there any sexual practices you categorically reject?
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Would you like us to take showers together?
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Do you like make-up?
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Do you find tanning sexy?
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What’s your after-sex ritual?
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Have you ever had unprotected sex?
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Which erogenous zones are you most sensitive to?
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When is the best time to make love?
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Did your parents talk to you about sex?
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Would you have sex for money? For 1 million dollars? More?
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What sexual practices would you like to discover?
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Are you for or against condoms after X years of married life?
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What places do you fantasize about?
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How could our sex life become even better?
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Have you ever had an erotic dream?
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What was your last dream?
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What kind of vacations do you prefer?
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Do you prefer baths or showers?
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Do you prefer sunrises or sunsets?
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What do you usually have for breakfast?
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What’s your favorite swear word?
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If you could ask yourself one question, what would it be?
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Do you have any regrets?
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Can you imitate someone famous?
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How long does it take you to get ready?
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Do you have any superstitions?
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Is the glass half-full or half-empty?
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Is the grass greener next door?
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Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
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If you see someone drop a $20 bill, do you keep it for yourself or give it back?
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What do you do to keep your spirits up?
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Is it criminal to wear socks with sandals?
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If you could change sex for a day, what would you do?
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What question would you like to ask me?
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What is the meaning of life?
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Can desire be satisfied with reality?
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How do you see our next reunion?
Remember, deep conversations and open communication are vital for strengthening your long-distance relationship. These questions can help you delve into meaningful topics, foster understanding, and deepen your connection with each other.
