The 9 Best Remote Control Butt Plugs (Bluetooth & Vibrating)

One of the best ways you can elevate your sex life is by incorporating sex toys into it.

Though frequently used by men and women alike, sex toys were not something most people were willing to discuss. Not only that, but sites and platforms selling sex toys were restricted, as well.

Thankfully, the progressive wave of sex positivity has led to the normalization of sex toys, allowing anyone to purchase however many they need or want at any time and from anywhere.

That said, when buying sex toys it is important to select ones that are well made and, most of all, fun to play with.

To help you choose the right one for anal play, here is our list of what we feel are the best remote-controlled butt plugs. Ones who have created the most buzz in the industry for their groundbreaking, smart sextech engineering and for offering their users numerous and always exciting features.

These remote control butt plugs are perfect for long distance couples as they can be controlled from anywhere. But that’s not all! As you will read, they have many other secrets and twists…

1. Lovense Hush 2: The King(s) of Bluetooth Butt Plugs

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Lovense’s Hush 2 line holds the distinction of being the first app-controlled butt plug.

Their innovative technology means you can control each and every size of this smart butt plug series via the Lovense Remote smartphone or desktop computer app, all of which allows close-range and long-distance control—in addition to a host of other exciting features.

But there are many other reasons why the small, medium, large, and extra large Hush 2s are so great. For instance, their non-porous, skin-safe 100% silicon surfaces are exceptionally easy to clean.

They all boast an ergonomic spiral on the neck, which effectively traps lube near the user’s anal sphincter, helping to ease the process of removing any of them after an extended session.

They are also designed to stay in place no matter how long or vigorously they are used, and they are built with a flared base that ensures they will not accidentally get pulled into the user’s body.

Combining all the wireless, Bluetooth control, and the Lovense Remote’s compatibility across multiple hardware platforms, the Hush 2 anal range allows users to create and share unlimited vibration patterns. Coupled with the toy’s fast USB rechargeability, you get a wonderfully designed product line that is guaranteed to make anyone go gaga with intense pleasure.

It is no mistake that Lovense is here at the beginning of our list, as we feel their remote app is the gold standard when it comes to ease of use and the most well-thought-out and expertly designed features. And as we mentioned, the Lovense Remote app is available not only for Android and Apple smartphones but also for Macintosh and PC computers.

If there is a downside to the app, it’s that it’s not as widely supported when it comes to adult entertainment interactivity. That said, Lovense has begun making huge strides in this regard, like partnering with sites like SexLikeReal and others.

All of the Hush 2 anal toys come in a well-made box with a magnetic charging cable, storage bag, and user’s manual.

Before or after use, be sure and give it a quick bath in lukewarm water, a small amount of either Lovense-approved sex toy cleaning solution or gentle antibacterial hand soap, one more rinse in warm water, and end with a good drying with a lint-free cloth.

Pros

• Each has extremely powerful and pleasurable vibrations. They are also easy to adjust, making it a snap to regulate their strengths until you find your own sweet spot.
• Fully waterproof, any Hush 2 can be used safely in a bath or shower.
• When fully charged, they can be used pretty much continuously for one and a half to two hours.
• Practically soundless, so ideal for discreet play.
• No rubber, latex, and phthalates for every Hush 2, so they are absolutely body safe.
• All are controllable from anywhere in the world, compliments of the Lovense’s Remote app’s long-distance interactive option.
• They can be sound activated, making any of them perfect for hands-off play.
• The Hush 2s can be set to vibrate along with any song on your smartphone or computer’s music playlist.
• Each comes with a one-year warranty.
• The XS is the perfect plug for beginners.

Cons

• Many users have taken issue with the connectivity.
• Cannot connect to vibrating toys made by other companies. But every Hush 2 works perfectly well with every smart Lovense device.

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2. Lovense Edge 2: The Best Vibrating Butt Plug for Intense Pleasure

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The Edge 2 is Lovense’s premier, high-tech prostate massager. What makes it extra special, and why it is here on our list, is due to its remarkable flexibility.

Some of its other fine features include an adjustable head, letting users comfortably hit their P-spot without much difficulty. Courtesy of its patented Lovense Remote integration, the app allows for remote or even hands-free control by setting it to respond to nearby sounds or to vibrate in tune with the user’s computer or smartphone music library.

To excite both the user’s prostate and their perineum, if they wanted that body area excited, that is, the Edge 2 is built with a pair of heavy-duty motors—one in the shaft and another located in its base.

Made of super-soft, body-safe silicone, the Edge 2 is a snap to clean. It is good for an hour and a half to slightly less than two hours on a full charge.

As with the Hush 2, the Edge 2 can be remotely controlled by a nearby or long-distance partner. As long as they have access to the Internet, of course. For close-range play, the Edge 2’s finely made electronics help maintain a steady, 360-degree connection with the app.

The Edge 2 arrives in a well-made and quite stylish box. Inside of which, in addition to the toy itself, you will find a pouch to store it in, its magnetic power cable, and a guide on how to use it.

Pros

• The Edge’s flexibility lets users tilt, twist, and adjust however much they want to reach their prostate gland.
• Usable solo or with a near or far distant partner.
• Its dual vibrators are quiet, yet powerful.
• Thoroughly waterproof, the Edge 2 is usable in the tub or shower and is simple to keep clean.
• Can be sound activated, so don’t hold back the moans.
• You can sync Edge to your favorite tunes and listen to them as you use it.
• One year warranty.

Cons

• Those who may not have experience with prostate stimulation may find the Lovense Edge 2 is a little too intense at first.

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3. b-Vibe Trio Plug

This vibrating butt plug is built with three separate b-Vibe motors, hence the name and why we feel their Trio is a great and remarkably enjoyable anal sex toy.

Its included wireless remote control makes the Trio nearly effortless to control. Among its features are eight intensity levels and nine pre-installed vibration patterns, ranging from gentle pulsations to intensely powerful sensations.

Made possible by the motors in the tip, middle, and neck, which can be set to work in concert to deliver even more powerful, and arousing, vibrations.

The Trio’s wireless remote is battery-operated. But if you would rather not use it, the toy has its own built-in controls. Though they may not be exactly comfortable to reach, especially when the toy is in use.

100% body-safe silicone with a soft silky finish, the Trio is also USB rechargeable. On a two-hour charge, it is good for half that much playtime.

Cleaning takes just some warm water, sex toy solution, or antibacterial hand soap, a good rinse, and a final dry with a lint-free cloth.

With your Trio, you also get its power cable, remote control, user’s manual, and one of the most well-made storage pouches we have ever seen!

Pros

• You can control it from a distance of up to 30 meters by your partner.
• Water-resistant, it is just the thing for quick shower-time fun.
• It only takes about an hour and a half to charge it, and then you can use for almost the same amount of time, depending on the settings you use.
• Remote comes with pre-installed, long-lasting batteries.
• Controlling the toy with the remote is relatively easy, and it gives you more control over the range of the toy’s functions.
• The vibrations from the three motors provide quick orgasms, though this depends on whatever settings you prefer.
• It is discrete and quiet.

Cons

• Connectivity beyond a certain distance is not possible.
• It is not waterproof, therefore you should avoid submerging it in the bath or using it in the shower for extended periods of time.

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4. We-Vibe Ditto

We-Vibe’s Ditto is a thoroughly arousing, absolutely pleasurable sex toy made to stimulate your anus with an assortment of satisfyingly powerful vibrations.

Through either its remote control or We-Vibe’s smartphone app, you can turn the Ditto’s motor on or off, increase or decrease its power, select different vibration patterns, and other functions. Ten patterns that run the gamut from low to all the way to the somewhat wild feeling ramp.

USB rechargeable, the Ditto also has a handy low power indicator to alert you when it needs to be plugged back in. After doing so for an hour and a half, it’s good for the same amount of time plus an extra half hour.

With all that, it’s 100% body-safe silicone construction, not to mention how it seems to be able to produce a nearly endless array of low, rumbly, and absolutely enjoyable vibrations. Like us, you’ll probably realize what an amazingly fun toy the Ditto is.

The Ditto arrives in a handsome box, which is perfectly suited for storing it when not in use, its remote control, power cord, a sample of Pjur sex lube, and user’s manual.

Pros

• Great for long-distance play, either with a partner in the same room or halfway around the world.
• Waterproof, so its tub or shower safe and easy to clean before or after every use.
• The We-Vibe Ditto comes with a two-year warranty.
• The ability to create your own combination of vibrations allows you to experiment and come up with what suits you best.
• It is easy to insert and comfortable to wear.

Cons

• The We-Vibe app (We-Connect) can be buggy, so setting it up may take a while.
• A lot of users do not appreciate the preset vibrations, so it is best to come up with your own combination.
• Some users found penetration in the vagina while the plug is inserted to be restricted.
• Newbies to anal canal stimulation may not be too comfortable with the We-Vibe Ditto.

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5. Je Joue Nuo

The Nuo’s biggest claim to fame is making the world’s first two-motor wireless butt plugs, with one of them placed in its bulb end and the other positioned in its base.

For controlling the Nuo, you can choose between its built-in controls or Je Joue’s version of a smartphone app. With both, you can select any of its five vibrational speeds or whichever of its seven patterns suits your needs.

Aside from its pair of motors for internal and external stimulation, the Nuo is wonderfully adjustable for all your otherwise hard-to-reach places.

USB rechargeable; it needs an hour and forty-five minutes to juice up. Made of Vegan-approved, body-safe silicone and is as waterproof as it is effortless to wash and keep clean—all you need is warm water and soap or sex toy cleaner.

In addition to the Nuo, you get its magnetic power cord, comprehensive user’s manual, and some promotional materials for Je Joue’s other fine sex toys.

Pros

• Enjoyable with a partner or by yourself.
• Option to use the Je Joue app to make your own vibration patterns and playlists.
• Great for close-by as well as long distance use.
• It is waterproof and very easy to clean, so all you need is warm water and soap or sex toy cleaner.
• It is very easy to control the settings of Nuo on your phone.
• The app allows you to create a playlist which provides a great way to connect with your partner.
• It comes with a 1-year warranty.

Cons

• Some users have reported some connectivity issues, especially when using the Bluetooth control pen.
• The Nuo can be very loud, which may be a turn-off for some users.

6. OhMiBod Lumen

A collaboration between two well-respected manufacturers, the Lumen combines OhMiBod’s superb design skills with Kiiroo’s legendary electronic know-how. The Lumen is an anal sex massager that’s as smart as it is pleasurable to use.

By smart, we mean that you can use the Feel Connect 3 smartphone app, available for both iPhone and Android, to fine-tune and remotely operate it from anywhere in the world. Again, if the operator has access to WiFi.

For musical pleasure, you can program it to dance with any song you have installed on your phone. Or, if you’d prefer to make it increase how strongly it vibrates, it can also be set to react to whatever sounds you like to make.

But you will need to keep the Lumen and your Bluetooth-enabled smartphone within 8 meters of each other for it to work.

The Lumen comes pre- installed with four unique pulses, which can be selected manually or through the Feel Connect 3 app. It needs two and a half hours to completely charge for one hour of use. This is done by connecting its included USB cable to whatever power source you have available.

Speaking of “coming,” the Lumen arrives with a satin bag to keep it in, its USB power cable, and a user’s guide.

Before or after every use, rinse the Lumen in warm and never excessively hot water, then apply sex toy cleaning solution or mild antibacterial hand soap, followed by a good rinse and a thorough dry with a lint-free cloth.

Pros

• A really arousing anal sex toy.
• Feel Connect 3 integration offers all sorts of erotic possibilities.
• Sound and music responsiveness can be very pleasurable to experience.
• Waterproof, so fun to use in the bath or shower, and makes it easy to clean.

Cons

• Poor charge-to-playtime ratio.
• Feel Connect 3 is a little short on features. Particularly when compared with others like the Lovense Remote app.

7. We-Vibe Vector

Returning with one more amazing product, We-Vibe’s Vector is a twin motor, prostate and perineum sex toy with more than enough vibrational power to stimulate both sensitive spots extremely well, making it a must-buy for anyone in either or both of these anal erogenous zones.

Like the Ditto, the Vector works with the We-Vibe app, and if you’d prefer not to get your smartphone app involved in your bedroom antics, you can use its provided remote control to turn it on, off, or cycle through its power levels or choose whichever of its 10 pre-installed vibration patterns you like the most.

Suppose you do not want to alert your roommate to what you are doing, or for those times, you might want to indulge in some surreptitious sex games in public. In that case, the Vector is far quieter than many other anal sex toys.

Its silicone outer skin feels remarkably realistic and never uncomfortably artificial. Which helps make it wonderfully waterproof. So if tub or shower play is your thing, this is a toy to add to your pleasure-device shopping list.

The Vector is somewhat flexible, allowing it to be easily positioned where you or your partner want it to go. On a two-hour charge, the Vector is capable of going for around ninety minutes.

The Vector ships with a storage pouch, charging cable, a sample of sexual lubricant, and a user’s manual.

All that’s necessary to keep the Vector clean is a brief splash of warm water, a small amount of sextoy cleaning solution or mild antibacterial soap, one more splash of lukewarm water, and finishing up with a lint-free cloth to dry it off.

Pros

• A perfect mix of power and design, making it a premier prostate and perineum massager.
• Works with the We-Vibe smartphone app.
• Simple and headache-free to clean due to its total waterproofness.

Cons

• We-Vibe app is good but not great.
• Not as flexible as other anal sex toys.
• A prostate-owner’s device, so it probably will not appeal to those without one.

8. Svakom Vick Neo

New to our list of the top nine remotely operated butt plugs, Svakom’s Vick Neo hits the same pair of anal-arousing areas (try saying that three times fast) but with a few added bonuses.

The first of which is this perineum and prostate stimulating massager comes equipped with an LED-illuminated control button. So finding and using it, especially in the dark, is an advantage. Let’s face it, when you are talking about sex and “down there”, you need to see where the toy is.

The Vick Neo is no slouch in the smarts department, either. This is because Svakom entered the teledildonic arena with their very own Apple or Android smartphone app. So, in addition to controlling the Vick Neo from just about anywhere, it is merely a matter of downloading and installing the app then connecting the Bluetooth and the toy.

Once done, the Vick Neo can be synced to the full range of Svakom smart sex toys for two-way, fully interactive play. It can also be made to respond to ambient sounds or whatever music you have on your smartphone.

The Vick Neo is totally waterproof, thus is a blast to use in the bath or shower and is never difficult to clean. It merely takes a quick splash of lukewarm water, the application of either sextoy cleaning solution or some mild antibacterial soap, a good rinse, and a thorough dry with a lint-free cloth.

The Vick Neo needs an hour to fully charge to last upwards of two and half hours. This puts it at the top of our contenders for the best power-to-play ratio anal sex toy. This is extremely important to consider when buying one of them as no one likes it when their massager or vibrator knocks out just when things are getting good.

In addition to the massager, the Vick Neo ships with a storage pouch, warranty card, guide to the Svakom app, and the toy’s user manual.

Pros

• Amazing length of playtime on a very brief charge.
• Illuminated control button on the base of the toy.
• Svakom app is easy to set up and use.

Cons

• Some may feel it is not flexible enough.
• Smartphone app lacks many fun features.

9. Satisfyer Deep Diver

While it may lie at the bottom of our remotely operated anal sex toys list, Satisfyer’s Deep Diver, in many ways, could be considered a tip-top massager.

Like how it owes more to anal beads than what some might view as more traditionally-shaped prostate-specific devices; while its unique shape may not appeal to people into that kind of play, for others, the Deep Diver could be a breath of fresh air.

Same, too, here’s a toy that bucks the far too common trend of anal toys that come in every color—as long as it is black. Rather, the Deep Diver is available in your choice of dark gray or, for the particularly adventurous, a light blue.

Beneath its body-safe, latex, phthalates, and rubber-free silicone skin is an impressive number of people- and anus-pleasing features.

These twelve built-in vibration patterns are engineered to work with Satisfyer’s smartphone app, a two-hour charge giving it nearly an hour’s use, and it is completely waterproof.

On the Satisfyer app, it comes with an impressive array of options, such as the ability to make and store an unlimited number of user-generated vibration patterns; use it to have the Deep Diver pulse in tune with your favorite playlist or any nearby sounds.

The Deep Diver comes in a rather handsome box with its charging cable and instruction guides.

Its waterproofness comes in handy when keeping it clean. All that is required before you plan on using it or when you are done enjoying it is a rinse in warm water, the application of sex toy cleaner or gentle antibacterial soap, a good rinse, and a thorough dry-off with a lint-free cloth.

Pros

• A nifty and remarkably affordable anal sex toy.
• Different approach to how it feels and works.
• Great for those not into prostate massage.
• Waterproof, so usable in bath and shower.
• Available in dark gray and light blue.

Cons

• Satisfyer app is one of the best, yet it still could do with some improvements.
• Blue anal sex toy may take some getting used to.

Best Remote Controlled Butt Plugs: Verdict

So what are the best remote control butt plugs out of all the above? Well, that is a somewhat tricky question.

Because each and every one of them is at least an amazing example of sextech innovation, what with them being chock-full of brilliant design decisions, amazing engineering, incredible manufacturing processes, and far more effusive praise from those like us who write about them, but more than anything from the thousands of people who really like playing with them.

Whichever remote anal sex toy you choose, it is more than guaranteed to be very high quality. Leaving the most important question up to you: What exactly are you looking for in a remote butt plug?

More accurately, important questions, plural, as you will probably have more than a few of them to consider. Such as, if you or your partner has a prostate and if either of you is into that sort of play, whether you want to use your smartphone, prefer a toy that comes with its own remote, and if your dream device is extra powerful or comes with seriously long battery life.

On smart sextech, there’s also the app factor. We mean how some of them are state-of-the-art while others might be slightly less. For this, we have to give well-deserved kudos to Lovense as their smartphone app has the most features, is also available for PC or Macintosh computers, and is remarkably simple to install, set up, and use.

As weighing all these options can be daunting at best, we recommend thinking before leaping. Sure, you will still end up with a great toy, but to tick the most boxes, you will need to do some self-exploration to determine which of these factors matters the most to you.

Once you have figured that out, it should be easy-peasy, as well as lemon-squeezy, to get your hands on just what you want: the remote anal sextoy of your dreams—or, rather, wet dreams.