Technology has rapidly advanced in recent years, allowing for the development of some really exciting products, especially in the realm of self-pleasure.
These advancements have come to be known as teledildonics, sex toys that can be controlled via an app in solo play and with a partner.
Teledildonics are available for both men and woman, and offer superb pleasure to those who use them.
These sex toys may be either internal or external vaginal stimulators and vibrators, or male masturbatory self-strokers and anal plugs.
One product that has stood out for many men is the Lovense Solace.
But does this self-stroker really stand out as a pleasurable, futuristic product?
In this comprehensive guide, I’ll walk you through everything you need to know to try the Lovense Solace with confidence.
Let’s take a closer look!
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Introducing Lovense Solace
Manual stroking toys have been in for a while.
This is true regardless of whether we’re talking about the ever-popular Fleshlight, products made by Tenga, or the many sleeves that fill the market today.
But if you’re like me, you’re on the hunt for a new experience.
You want a toy that can offer you new sensations, and one that does the bulk of the work so you can remain more immersed in the content you’re watching or self-exploration you’re pursuing.
This is what the Lovense Solace promises its user base.
The Lovense Solace is described as an “app-controlled automatic male masturbator” that brings innovation to the traditional stroker experience, giving the user the ability to use their device hands-free (for both solo and partner play) and with the added benefit of syncing to modern adult entertainment experiences.
To understand the full scope of what the Lovense Solace can do, I’ll walk you through some of the key features, as well as the product’s functionality, in the sections below.
The Secrets of the Solace
The Lovense Solace is absolutely packed to the brim with features, which means that there’s a lot of ground to cover in order to fully understand what it does.
Here are some of the highlights I think are worth noting if you’re considering the Lovense Solace as your next sex toy.
Versatile Fit and Customizable Settings
One of the biggest frustrations I see thrown out there about modern sex toys is that they are often hit or miss when it comes to accommodating men of various sizes.
Some toys are designed for men with greater length and girth, which can make it harder for men who are smaller to get full satisfaction from the capabilities of the toy.
Others are designed too small, which makes the experience uncomfortable for bigger men.
The Lovense Solace is designed to accommodate men of all sizes, which is further supported by its wide range of customizable settings that allow for greater control over thrusting patterns and depth.
Bluetooth Capabilities
The Lovense Solace does offer manual controls on the front of the device, but arguably one of the Solace’s biggest selling points is its Bluetooth capabilities.
I found it easy to control the Lovense Solace via the Lovense Remote app, which gave me the ability to set thrusting levels and patterns with ease.
Whether you’re looking to test the boundaries of the technology with the wide range of Bluetooth features or just make it easier to control it for a hands-free experience, the Bluetooth capabilities of the Lovense make it good for solo play or play with one or multiple partners.
Mountable
Undoubtedly one of the more innovative features of teh Lovense Solace is its ability to be mounted, thus fixing it in place for hands-free play.
There’s always this little bit of awkwardness in hands-free experiences where you’re worried about the toy sliding off. This is why I appreciated the mounting equipment that comes with the Solace.
It was extremely easy for me to use the Lovense Solace in nearly every position. The mounting equipment helped me mount the device to my desk so that I could use it standing up, or even position it straight down or at an angle so that I could sit and use it.
Strong Battery Life
Another common issue I’ve run into with many electronic sex toys is that the battery life simply isn’t enough to get a fully satisfying session out of them.
Most toys last around an hour or a little bit more, with their intensity and sensations seeming to decrease in strength with every stroke.
This kind of scenario will leave you unsatisfied and unable to get the most out of your electronic toy.
The Lovense Solace remedies this by offering a much longer battery life that can last up to 12.5 hours yet only needs an average charge time of around two hours to fully charge the device.
Just keep in mind that the average duration of any session will naturally depend on a number of factors, like:
- stroking intensity.
- Bluetooth connectivity.
- and other actions that drain the battery life.
Multiple Sleeve Options
The different sleeve attachments for the Lovense Solace didn’t blow me out of the water like I thought they would.
While it’s important to mention that you can change out sleeves, selecting one of the two options this device offers, the second sleeve is an optional addon purchase.
The original neutral sleeve is a long white sleeve that comes with various ridges and bumps that stimulate you as you stroke. It’s not entirely smooth, and does offer a level of satisfaction that may be enough for some.
If you’re looking for something different or more intense, you can purchase their vagina sleeve, which comes with a much more natural-feeling interior that’s designed to feel tighter and more realistic.
The one thing I liked is that both sleeves are easy to change out if you want to alternate between the two at any point.
Syncs With Adult Media
The one thing that really excited me about the Lovense Solace is that it can sync with a wide range of media in order to help me get more out of my sessions.
Some of its integrations include camming sites, interactive adult content, and even adult games.
I found that it integrated extremely well with VR adult content, making it easier to put myself in the middle of the action without having to use any manual toys in the process.
How Does It Work?
While the Lovense Solace was quite daunting for me at first, I found that it wasn’t as difficult to use as I initially thought it was going to be.
Here’s a breakdown of the basic steps to use it without connecting it to anything.
- Hold the “On” button in the center of the directional buttons for around three to five seconds, which will activate a red light to indicate that it’s on.
- Use the directional buttons to increase or decrease thrusting intensity and tap into the different pre-installed pattern settings that the Solace offers.
- Hold the “On” button for the same amount of time to turn it off. Hold the “Down” button to release the sleeve compartment so that you can make sure your toy is clean every time you use it.
Pairing is also fairly easy. To pair with a mobile device, simply download the app and keep it open.
Then, turn on your device and navigate to the link icon in the app. Click on that, press the “+” to search for your toy, and then tap on your toy and hit “done” to successfully pair it.
Your Solace automatically connects with your app every time you turn it on after this, so you don’t have to worry about going through this process each time.
The pairing process is equally simple on the computer, with the only change being that you need to pair your toy with your computer via the Lovense USB Bluetooth adapter.
Once you’ve paired it with a device, you can then begin programming it to meet your needs or syncing it with the adult media you’re watching.
Frequently Asked Questions About the Lovense Solace
I had a few questions about using the Lovense Solace that weren’t easily answered on the main product’s page. I put together some FAQs you might have that should be answered before you begin using this device for yourself.
Can you use the Lovense Solace while it’s charging?
No, you should not use your Lovense Solace while it’s charging. In this regard, no sext toy should be used while charging!
Make sure to only use it after you’ve charged, whether you’ve run the battery down or you’re charging it right after taking it out of the box.
Is it truly a hands-free product?
The one thing I think should be talked about more is how hands-free the Solace truly is.
While you can use the desk mounting attachment to make it easy to sit there and enjoy the toy without having to manually manage it, you’re still going to need to use your hands or at least your legs if you plan on using your Solace standing, sitting, or lying down.
It doesn’t take away the fun, but you do need to maintain the right expectations going into the experience.
Does it sync with all adult media?
No. The Lovense Solace will only sync with certain forms of media that have been designed to interact with specific sex toys.
Make sure to review your favorite adult entertainment sites to see if they have videos that offer connectivity options with your Solace, or check out the list of compatible sites here.
You can also download the VibeMate app to connect seamlessly with your Solace.
What lube should I be using with my toy?
I didn’t know this at first, but you should only be using water-based lubricants with silicon-based toys. Silicon and oil-based lubricants can break down your toy, making it less effective and enjoyable over time.
However, water-based lubricants tend to dry out much quicker than oil-based lubricants, so be sure to use it liberally.
What should I be using to clean my Lovense Solace sleeves?
All you need to do to keep your Lovense Solace sleeves clean is to use a mild unscented soap and water. Scented soaps tend to contain perfume or alcohol, which may irritate you if not well-rinsed.
Leave your sleeves out to air dry, and make sure that you get inside the interior to remove any moisture so that you don’t experience mold and bacteria growth.
Trust me, it can change the whole experience and result in you having to pay more just to get your hands on a replacement sleeve for your Solace.
Pros
- The Lovense Solace comes packed with features that make it easy to customize your masturbation sessions, giving you the ability to control depth and intensity for solo play or play with one or multiple partners.
- The sleeve compartment is easy to remove and clean, which is something I greatly appreciate as not all toys do this.
- You can pair your device with some of your favorite forms of adult entertainment media, adding an extra layer of immersion and excitement.
- The extensive battery life on the Lovense Solace makes it so that you can easily enjoy multiple sessions on a single charge, which only takes a couple of hours to complete.
- You can use the desk mount for hands-free play if you like to watch adult media sitting down or even standing up.
Cons
- The Lovense Solace is loud. If you’re looking for a hands-free stroker that you can use discreetly, this is not the device for you.
- While the Lovense Solace is a product that is advertised as being versatile so that it can fit any male, men who are girthier or longer did complain about not being able to use this product successfully. They encountered issues with the device slowing down and stalling because it couldn’t apply enough force for full strokes.
- There are a lot of features you probably won’t use, including stroking that syncs with non-sexual video games or even music.
- The Solace is quite big and, unless mounted, not actually very hands-free.
My Verdict
Overall, the Lovense Solace is a nifty piece of equipment that can provide a much more intense masturbation session with all of the bells and whistles that modern sex toys have to offer.
I love most of its features, but I wasn’t as impressed with the noise or the decreased ease of use that comes when using it outside of the desk mount.
That being said, I do think it’s a toy worth trying out if you’re tired of the low-end strokes that litter the market.
If you’re interested in trying the Lovense Solace for yourself, buy it on the Lovense website today!
