10 Ways to Feel Better When You Miss Your Partner So Much

No, missing your partner is not necessarily something to avoid at all costs. The truth is if you are suffering today, it’s not because you miss your boyfriend or girlfriend. Far from it.

We only really suffer when we try to resist the very idea that we are in a long-distance· relationship. A distance we would find unfair, worse than a curse and that we can legitimately hate.

However, not accepting your situation is the best advice to suffer from your relationship. And one of the best tip to lead to exhaustion and the end of your love life.

Although it’s difficult for two people who are in love to be separated, it doesn’t mean the end of the world.

You should rejoice to have in your life what millions of people are looking for: Love.

Thus, in this article, we will see 10 ways to feel better when you miss your partner so much, to· channel this negative energy and redirect it in positive activities that are worth it.

1. Feel the Love!

During these moments of intense emotional pain, something special is happening. We feel like an energy inside of us wants us to kiss and hug our lover. Right here, right now.

Most people would advise you to hold this energy. To suppress it.

My advice is that you understand it is basically neither good nor bad, but you can prevent the worse by using it correctly.

How? The next time you are overwhelmed by these negative feelings because you miss your man or woman, try to see them as positive emotions.

Lie down, close your eyes and feel this energy passing through your body.

Let it go and enjoy the feeling. Keep your mind free of distractions and focus on your energy.

Then think and visualize your partner and your lovely couple.

You might suffer from missing him/her, but you are able now to focus on the positive aspects and have gratitude for the past and the future.

You feel Love, and that’s all that matters. Smile, you are together.

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2. Talk about it with your lover

Talk about it, but don’t make it a habit either.

If you send him all day long dozens of text messages to say, “I miss you …”, call every 5 minutes and expect your lover to be continuously available and receptive, she/he will feel overwhelmed and will doubt your ability to keep being in a LDR.

Talk about the topic and your feelings at the end of a conversation on Skype or the phone, for example.

From there, you can decide to increase your to talk more often or to meet more often to compensate.

3. Send your LDR lover pictures

If you cannot see your significant other in person, at least, you can share pictures together.

Send him/her photos of you, of what you do, of your discoveries or anything that goes through your mind!

She/he will probably do the same in return.

When you start feeling sad, one of the best tips not to get depressed is to go watch your couple photo albums and think about the good times.

After a few minutes, you already feel much better.

4. Go out with friends or family

Having a sincere conversation with a friend or a relative to talk about how you feel about your relationship always works.

It’s a great way to release tension, feel supported and think about something else.

After all, missing one’s lover is a relatively classic problem in these modern times.

It’s a safe bet to say that your friends have experienced more or less the same and understand your situation. They are your best allies after your partner.

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5. Write a letter or poem to your partner

Do you remember the idea of “positive energy” I talked about earlier?

You can also use it to free your emotions and put them down on paper. This will allow you to:

  • Relieve your pain and open your heart
  • Create a unique gift for your lover

Poets have done it for centuries so why not you? They use their love and pain to write moving texts from the depths of their hearts and honor their muses.

Try it just once, and you’ll see how easy it is to let the pencil dance with these romantic thoughts without thinking about it.

(Now you understand why 90% of pop songs talk about Love.)

Put everything in an envelope, send it to your partner, and that’s it!

6. Create something fun for your partner

From my experience, I would say that the best time to create a surprising gift for your significant other is when we miss her/him the most.

As I mentioned just before, if you want to write a letter or a poem when you feel the sadness, the words will automatically align on the sheet of paper.

The great thing is that it also works for any other activities involving creativity and your lover.

If you want to draw something, make a video, a photo album… Everything looks so much simpler, and the results are surprising this way. The absence becomes a kind of super-power which makes everything you do for your partner easy and effortless.

Be positive and enjoy this opportunity!

7. Allow yourself to be melancholic

What if it was okay to miss him or her so much?

What if we allowed ourselves to be sad from time to time instead of blaming ourselves because we feel a little depressed?

Wouldn’t that be great?

It is more than normal to think from time to time about the moments spent together nostalgically.

And, of course, it is more natural to release pressure from time to time, letting the tears go, whether you are a girl or a boy.

I can guarantee that you will feel much better after a good cry. So, go ahead, it’s allowed.

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8. Realize that the separation will not last forever

The distance is another point to relativize. Or rather the duration of this long-distance relationship. Keep in mind that it won’t last.

One day or another, things will change, and you will finally live with your partner in the best case scenario.

(And I won’t blame you if you stop coming on LongDistanceFun.com, I promise 😉 )

The ultimate goal of long distance relationships – ending the distance – is not a dream, a fantasy, or something absolutely unreachable.

This is a common goal that eventually will come true. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be together, right?

To overcome the distance is easier than ever, so understand that it is just a matter of time.

9. Find an opportunity to see him/her sooner

Directly related to the previous point, I recommend during these intense “missing him/her” phases that you take the opportunity to think about ways to meet earlier than expected.

Cannot see each other until next summer?

You’d be surprised how a few minutes of thinking can get you so many ideas you hadn’t thought of before.

Think about things you would like to do or see together.

Think about your respective schedules.

Then see with your partner if it is feasible or not. Bingo!

10. Take care of yourself

Last advice in this article, but not the least important. The trick here is basic but extremely effective.

It’s about focusing all your thoughts on other things than the sadness you experience from your LDR.

As long as you can stay focused on another topic or activity (project, work, sport, music, books, movies, hobbies, etc.), you will be able to support more easily the distance and the absence!

Conclusion

In conclusion, I hope you will remember from this article that the key is to consider the absence as an energy you need accept and channel, and not as an evil curse you should suppress or hate.

Use this energy intelligently and release its creative and romantic power through the tips listed above.

– Will

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