Sexuality must not be a taboo even if you live in a long distance relationship. No matter how old you are. No matter how long you have been in this relationship. No matter the kilometers.
Intimacy in a long distance relationship is just as crucial as in a traditional relationship.
The difference lies in how to express this intimacy. Say goodbye to physical contact, kisses, hugs and… sex.
Now the foundation of the couple is completely upside down. We give up on taste, touch, and smell, and we depend more than ever on our sight and our hearing.
But then, can we still share intimate moments together remotely? In other words, can we still make love with our partner? Can you still have sex in a LDR?
Well, “technically”… no.
(Although, as you will see in this article, technology seems to increasingly destroy the barriers that can separate two beings.)
But that is actually fine. Because when you think about it, the primary interest of making love with our other half is not so much to feel an intense physical pleasure through our senses.
It is much more than that. Otherwise why would you not do it yourself?
Here are 4 Ways to Have Sex in Your Long Distance Relationship that should allow you to stay in harmony with your partner and your desires.
These 4 methods are ranked from the most passive to the most fusional. The last one even allows you to exchange physically with your other half …
1. Sexting and mobile apps
Today, it can be stated without any hesitation that sexting has been largely accepted. And for a good reason!
The advantage of erotic texting is that it allows to express one’s most naughty thoughts without leaving too much one’s zone of comfort. Simple and effective, this one goes straight to the point with a minimal effort.
Here’s the procedure to follow:
- Be creative and create your hottest phrases
- Season these with one or more photos on Snapchat where you are more or less dressed and more or less in an evocative position
- Wait for the answer of your partner
- Raise the temperature!
Read more about Sexting for LDRs: The Art of Long Distance Relationship Sexting: 5 Tips to Sext Your Partner
2. Phone Sex
We go to the next level by adding voice to the words, for a favorable combination to the expression of the most intimate fantasies.
Indeed sex phone is more imaginative than the other alternatives. In this situation, it is up to each partner to describe what he/she is wearing, what he/she takes off, his/her position, his/her desires or what he/she would do to the other. Or try role playing.
Even if it means distorting reality and adding layers to fill one’s half!
Then we close our eyes and we let ourselves be guided by the whisper of our beloved one …
3. Skype sex
After the beautiful words, we go into action. Skype is certainly the most convenient free video conferencing tool to please oneself face to face.
This time gesture mingles with the words and you can contemplate live the realization of your desires, without needing to describe everything.
Get ready for the appointment (outfit, hairstyle, make-up, etc.), make sure everything is working well, and go!
To spice up everything, you will be able to find on the Internet applications like “Sex dice” or “Action or Truth” that will allow you to launch small erotic challenges. But make sure the door to your room is locked!
Read more about Skype Sex for LDRs: 4 Things You NEED to Know About Skype Sex for Long Distance Relationships
4. LDR Interactive Sextoys and Long Distance Sex
Smart sex toys are not simple sex toys. Indeed, these allow to exchange in real time the movements made from and to another toy.
In other words, you will “feel” exactly the movements of your half and vice versa. Add to this the integrated video chat or Skype and you have the absolute solution to REALLY make love at a distance.
For info, several ranges of products exist with prices ranging from 150$ to 500$ for a pair of sex toys. An investment that can truly be worth it, especially if your distance relationship will last for a long time.
You don’t have anymore any excuse for not sharing intimate moments with your boyfriend or girlfriend remotely
However, if you feel that your partner is reluctant to try long distance sex, it may be a desire-related problem.
In this case, I recommend you read the article I posted on this subject by clicking here.
Read more about the best sextoys for long distance relationships: Top 5 Best Long Distance Sex Toys (Teledildonics) for Your LDR Dates