With a long distance relationship, you may find that there are sometimes a lot of unknowns, making it hard to try and decipher some crucial aspects of a long distance relationship.
You spend your time wonderingĀ what is going on in your significant other’s mindĀ and whether or not this relationship is really important to them.
Wondering if your relationship is important to your partner or if they are actually serious about your long distance relationship can cause you to overthink.
The problem is that it can be scary or intimidating to ask them loaded questions like that one. A solution to this problem is to look for the signs. Your long distance significant other will tell you how they really feel without having to come out and say it.
Here are some of the signs that your long distance partner is actually serious about the relationship.
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1. They Want to Spend Time With You
What do guys want in a long distance relationship? In theory, one thing: to be with you physically.
So a big sign that they are serious about the relationship is that they make time for you. Not only do they make time for you but they are excited and motivated to spend that quality time with you.
Sometimes when they start to spend less time with you or make less time available for you it can be because they are pulling away from you. This is why it is important to know that they are eager to spend time with you.
If you aren’t sure whether or not your long distance partner is eager to spend time with you, one of the ways you can tell is if your partner contacts you first.
If you are normally the one who contacts your significant other and plans quality time for the both of you, then try for one day not to be the one contacting them first.
You do this to see if they reach out to you first so that you can tell if they are eager to spend time with you. It is a good indication whether or not your long distance partner is serious and eager about your relationship.
2. They Talk About Future Long-Term Plans for Your Relationship
Another sign that your long distance partner is serious about your relationship is that they talk about the future with you or discuss long-term plans for the relationship with you.
This can show up in your relationship in several different ways. One of the best ways this can manifest in your relationship is in the form of your partner talking about taking trips or vacations together. You can know that your partner is serious if they talk about wanting to book a trip with you a couple of months or even a couple of years in the future.
This means that they are forward-thinking or thinking about a long-term relationship with you. You can tell they aren’t really thinking about how long the relationship will last until it ends.
Another way that you can see if your long distance partner is thinking about the future is that they will mention wanting to either have to move to be with you or have you move to be with them.
If they are willing to talk about the future in that way and are willing to take that leap then you can be sure that they are feeling serious about you and the relationship.
Talking about the future can show itself in many different ways but these few examples are a good basis for you to go by.
3. You Have the Same Goals
Along the way in your long distance relationship I am sure you have talked about goals. Some of them are short-term goals and others are long-term goals.
Either way, it is important that your long distance partner’s goals match up in some way to yours. They don’t have to be a perfect match or even have to be completely similar, but they do have to lead in the same direction.
You can tell that your long distance significant other is serious when their own goals follow down the same path as yours. That means that they want to continue with you and grow with you in life.
Goals are important for anyone’s growth, so when your partner’s goals match up with your own it means that they want to significantly grow with you and become a better person with you.
In a long distance relationship it is important that your goals align to join you together instead of separating you from each other. Some goals go down a different path or are considered opposites of each other.
To see if your partner is serious about the relationship, spend some time talking about future goals and where you both want to end up in life.
4. You Are Both Happy
The biggest part of any relationship is that both members are happy being involved in that relationship. You cannot expect the relationship to continue if one or both of you are unhappy.
You can tell how someone is feeling by picking up on their small habits or changes in their habits. If your significant other starts to pull away from you by not responding to you or purposely spending less time with you that usually means that they are unhappy.
On the other hand, you can tell someone is happy by the same way. If your partner sends you a gift or even a heartfelt message or letter it usually means that they are happy and in love.
If your partner wants to spend more time with you or seems to be more eager than normal to talk to you, it can also be a sign of just being happy and in love. All you’ve got to do to try and decipher if your partner is serious is to see how happy they are.
5. You Trust Each Other
Trust is important in any relationship, but perhaps more so in a long distance relationship. If your partner is serious about you and the relationship, one of the things they will show is trust.
By your long distance partner showing you that they trust you it means that they are willing to put that extra risk and work into the relationship.
By trusting you they have opened themselves up to the possibility of being hurt and let down, which they would only do if they saw a future with you.
6. They Tell You Their Feelings and Secrets
When someone is serious in a relationship they open themselves up to their significant other. This means that they tell you about their past, their dreams, how they are feeling, and any secrets they want to share with you.
When your long distance significant other opens up to you about personal things like this it usually means that they are serious about you and the relationship. Only people that are serious about a relationship tell their significant other about their personal feelings and their past.
The reason that this is so important for figuring out if your long distance significant other is serious about the relationship is that it takes a lot of trust to tell someone anything personal about yourself.
So if you find your significant other opening about and telling you personal things about themselves, that’s usually a great indication they are serious about the relationship and see this long distance relationship lasting awhile.
7. They Reach Out to You
Another great way to tell if they are serious about you is that they reach out to you in times of need or sadness.
Everybody has tough times and if your significant other does not talk to you or ignores you in their times of need, that can sometimes indicate that they are not serious about you or the relationship.
On the other hand, if they do confide in you and reach out to you it means that they trust you and see you as someone that they can confide in. If they feel that they can confide in you than that most likely means that they are serious about you and the long distance relationship.
8. You Can Talk About Anything
A sign that they are serious about you and are comfortable around you is that you two can talk about anything. It does not even have to be a serious subject.
If the two of you can laugh about anything and have made inside jokes with each other, that’s a pretty good indication that they are serious about the long distance relationship.
Being close and comfortable with each other is important for having your long distance significant other be serious about you and the relationship.
9. They Don’t Come Up With Excuses
If things have been going on in life where the both of you can’t talk as often or spend spend quality time together your significant other isn’t making up excuses for why they have been gone.
In life, things can get complicated and that means that your significant other can’t get to the phone as often to talk to you.
That’s okay, but if it starts happening a lot and they give you vague excuses about where they were or what they were doing than it can possibly be because they aren’t as serious in the relationship as you might have thought they were.
Your significant other needs to be straight forward with you about what was going on. If they are serious in the relationship then they are able to trust you and confide in you about what is happening in their life o cause them to be gone so much.
Sometimes it can be hard to have this talk, but it is necessary for the building of trust and seriousness in a relationship. If they don’t come up with excuses that usually means that they are serious about you and the relationship.
10. They Make it a Point to Say Goodnight to You
Making it a point to say goodnight to you is important for feeling loved and thought about. When someone does something little yet important like this to make you feel loved and remembered, it can mean that they really care about you.
People that really care about their long distance significant other tend to want to be serious in their relationship.
So if your long distance significant other cares about you enough to make sure that they tell you goodnight then they are most likely pretty serious about loving you and making your long distance relationship work.
11. You Had A Big Fight and The Relationship is Still Intact
If a relationship is weak then it will not survive a big fight most of the time.
So if you and your long distance significant other have had a pretty major fight and the relationship is still working, that’s another pretty good indication that your partner is serious about being in a relationship with you.
Fights can be especially rough on long distance relationships because you guys are not around each other physically to try and soften the blow. This is why when you have a big fight and get through it to carry on and rebuild, it means that your relationship is pretty solid and serious.
12. They Cheer You On
Your biggest cheerleader should be your significant other. If your long distance significant other consistently cheers you on then they care about you, your happiness and wellbeing, and your future.
In my opinion, that’s a pretty big indication that you guys are close and are both serious about the long distance relationship. Being able to cheer each other on is important for a healthy and serious relationship.
13. They Work Hard to Surprise You Still
Being able to surprise your significant other in a long distance relationship is important on its own. On that note, if your significant other works hard to make it a point to continue to try and surprise you, then you are someone that is important to them.
When you are important to your significant other and they go out of their way to do something nice for you, this quite often means they are serious about you and about the long distance relationship.
14. They Do Not Forget Important Dates
Remembering important dates such as an anniversary or a birthday means that they care about how much this date means to you.
When your long distance partner remembers the relationship anniversary, your birthday, or other milestone dates, it means that your significant other cares about you and thinks of you as someone important in their lives.
When they think about you as someone important and as someone that they deeply care about, that usually means that you and your relationship with them is something that your partner is serious about.
15. They Miss You During the Day
Missing someone is a normal part of any relationship.
Although, for a long distance relationship the couple tends to miss each other more because they do not get the personal and physical contact to help with the feeling of missing the other person in the relationship.
If your long distance significant other mentions pretty frequently that they miss you then it’s a pretty safe bet to say they are serious about you and the long distance relationship.
16. They Make it a Point to Try and Visit You as Much as Possible
Visitation is crucial for the survival of a long distance relationship. When your significant other makes it a point to visit you as much as they can, it’s usually a good sign they are pretty serious about you.
This is because taking trips can be expensive and it certainly is never free! A partner that’s willing to spend time and money to get to where you are or to get you to where they are is invested in making your long distance relationship work.
Another reason why it can mean that they are serious about you is that they want to see you and are willingly to do what it takes to do that.
Not everybody is willing to travel to see somebody, so if your partner is then that means they are pretty serious about loving you and about being in a relationship with you.
17. They Sent You a Personal Object for You to Remember Them
Having something personal to hold onto from your significant other can really help in a long distance relationship.
In a long distance relationship you can sometimes feel alone so when they send you something personal like a well-loved sweatshirt or a special something along those lines, it can help the other person feel less alone.
Which is why if your partner sent you something to remind you of them it can mean that they are pretty serious about the long distance relationship.
How to Know if a Guy is Serious about You in a Long Distance Relationship? Final Thoughts
There are many different ways that you can tell that your long distance significant other is serious about you and the relationship.
Between doing something small like making it a point to say goodnight to you every night, to doing something bigger like confiding to you about something personal, things like that can really show you that your significant other is serious about the relationship. This all adds up to give you some peace of mind about your long distance relationship and his commitment to making it work.
And in the end, when a guy will travel far to see you, you can be sure he is a keeper!
Hello, im in a long distance relationship for about a year now and i have not met my ldr boyfriend in person yet. We have plans to be together for good but due to the covid situation, we cant yet. Now my question is, why do i feel like i want the relationship more than he does? I can feel his love for me and he said hes happy with me too. I hate to compare because i know im being unfair. He works too hard thats why im the one who waits for him most if the time and im fine with it, i think. Hope you can help me stop comparing feelings. Some advice will be of great help. Thanks and have a nice one.
Hi Ella. Letās chat on instagram. I am in similar situation like yours. My IG is richellecolyer š
Hello, just saw your reply. Canāt find you on IG tho..
OMG. Ella let’s chat on IG too.
I am in a similar situation too
One year relationship, haven’t met him yet..just phone calls, texting and video calls
And like you, I compared feelings too but I got to discover that comparing feelings made me start feeling emotionally down, always thinking (sometimes crying too)…I just had to stop it because I didn’t want to destroy what we had (still have).. and once I did, I started noticing that he loves me too (only we have different ways of showing it)
The truth is LDR isn’t a 100% thing, it’s 50/50…u give it a chance to work, make effort too..if it does good but if it doesn’t, life goes on
LDR isn’t that different from normal relationships… It’s all about believing and trust
I love my man very much and I’m literally scared to lose him but there’s still a part of me that’s ready for d heartbreak (if or when it happens)š¤·š¤·
Hi Jennifer,
Your statement is very true, we should not compare the feelings because our SO have their own ways to show how serious or how they love us.
Men also get tired because of busy schedule at work sometimes they can be not in the mood but that doesn’t mean he loves you less. We just have to put more effort or patience and love during that time when they feel tired and so as he when we feel not in the mood.
My man told me that we should not fight as we are not able to comfort each other since we are far away so we have to put a lot of patience, understanding and kindness love to each other to be able to survive till we meet.
Hoping the pandemic to subside and quarantine will be less hassle so we could meet our beloved.
Godbless to all the couples who are in LDR, may we meet and stay for good with our partner soon. š
Hi, I’ve known the guy I’m in a LDR with for roughly 8-9 years. We’ve met each other for the first time in our 3 years of LD communicating. The communication have had its intermittent stops throughout those years due to life changes and so forth. We’ve met again after our first meet up 5 years later. However, I believe that he love and care for me in ways because of our time of communicating and getting to know each other. There have been times when I’ve felt that he have been seeing other women that’s in close proximity of him, which is typical. I’ve stop communicating with him for some days, weeks and months due to those reasons. Its like he says things to make me think and feel he’s wanting more however I never met any of his family members nor close friends. It’s like I’m a secret. He has a career that he’s in and he desires more within his career life yet it’s like he’s not wanting to make a commitment just yet. I’m getting bored of the LDR and it’s really tiresome at this point. There’s really no intimacy, dates and fun going on.. just chatting via text and FaceTime which is basically all we can do. I sometimes feel that he wants me to just keep me around because he know that I’m a great woman and wouldn’t want me with anyone else though he’s not ready to make anything official because either he’s liking being alone to do his own thing or wanting to finish his goals. Either way I’ feel that after all these years of knowing each other and him saying all these wonderful things it gets lonely and physical intimacy and love mean a lot to me.. I’m getting burnt out. Could you help me out with some advice, please. Thanks.
I feel you. I am in a same situation.
Hi,
If you need a friend to talk to.
I’ll be all ears.
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My ig is Leannemerrmaid.
Take Ć deep breath.
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Talk to you soon.
I am also in a long distance relationship which is odd for me and im really interested in making it work but how do we do that if he’s always busy working? What should i do? Ig name is dismissem talk with me ladies ill talk back. Thanks
I have not met him but we text everyday. He flew here to meet me and as soon as he got to LA the nanny called to say his 7 yo daughter was in hospital and he flew back so l never met him. He had pneumonia after that. I wonder with all these problems if he now will come at all. He always says he loves me. Soon he will have to go back out to sea
Iām in the exact same situation. Are you guys still together or did it end?
I’m in a LDR for almost an year & have not met my partner for once as a person. We already discussed about being casual till i go to med college, he says he don’t want me to distract in something else, we even donot talk for a half month coz of his job, & that time I feel ignored I discussed with him about being ignored ,he is sorry about that, bt whenever he get time he atleast ask me about my days, i have feeling for him more than I used to feel ,bt still afraid to love & reason is I don’t want to get hurt again. I’m confused should I stay with him or jst take a break bt also I don’t want to loose him
I was in LDR with a guy for a while and though he said the right things, his actions said differently. In the end, his action were telling the truth.
Since then, I’ve met another guy who lives away, what can I say, I don’t have time for a full time boyfriend, so that works for me.. this one, the relationship is more casual, no promises, but yet, I can’t help but notice the differences and I see this one is much more into it than the other was, his actions support what he says, so I don’t know if this will ever become more, we’ve talked about meeting, but with covid, we have to wait for international travel to be possible again, so it may be a while… but my main point is.. if his actions make you doubt, then maybe you have your answer.
Hi Mun,
I hope you are alright and making the right decision.
Before you get emotional with your SO make sure he feels the same way for you and it should be correspondent with his action because if a man is serious or do love you no matter how busy his day is he will find at least 5 minutes to say hi or update you about his day or take time to know your situation if you are alright.
Make it clear with him what is his plans for both of you.
Godbless.
Same too me here I usually call , chatting , and video to him
Okay their is a guy I met online we are 10 years apart. That guy said he wants to keep in touch with me from a long term he is not a bad guy we only talk about random things but he says he wants to know me little by little and shows 5 of the signs mention here. Could it be that he likes me.
Hello,
Iām so new of this LDR set up. To sum it up, we met on a dating app during Covid and we chat on and off but not that constant. He used to come to the country that Im currently in as part of his work. Only on his 3rd visit from the time we met on the app we decided to pursue our meeting. I am denial of this love at first sight thing because I am very much aware that he will never stay. Met him for the 2nd time and planned another meet but it didnāt happened because I started having this trust issue. It didnāt end that well and he left back to his country with both of us a total stranger. I was badly hurt for not being able to truly express how I felt for him because during our meeting he told me that he liked me. I was in pain not to even at least tell him that I liked him too and I have high hopes he was an answered prayer. I was frustrated and I was depressed. It went for a week and another 2 weeks till I got the nerve to reach out to him. It was awkward but I told him everything. I wasn’t sure if he was happy with the revelation but I knew he appreciated it and even suggested to try the LDR set up which I refused right away. Im trying to accept from the very beginning that our world are totally different and pessimistic that we canāt be together. He told me he was doomed right before he wanted to try. Two weeks after he reached out and told me how I left him hurt. We talked about LDR set up again and for the 2nd time I refused. But with all his explanation, the next day we tried. I started reaching out to him and he is cooperating. However at this stage we are are only chatting and exchanging photos. Im waiting for him to initiate to do face-time and other means of communicating. I feel like giving up as I feel like this aint going anywhere. I don’t know a lot from him yet and so is he. I am uncertain if he is being loyal to me. Even me, I just wanted to play it calm and not to overthink. I love him at first sight and even today. I cried at times because Iām missing him. He has also expressed that he loves me and we are organically connected. Will I be bad if I will divert my loneliness of meeting other men while he is away? Or am I too nice to wait for him till he comes back again and might have wasted good chances around? I was always asking for a sign if I should hold on to or face the reality that we are totally in different worlds. We have 9 hours time difference also. He has totally different career than mine. But what I donāt understand is why my feelings for him is so strong. Iām happy but at the same time I am brokenhearted. Please share me your thoughts…Thank you.
Hi, give me some advice about my boyfriend we’re LDR since March 2020, and we’re turning 3yrs this year I really don’t know what to do.
U aren’t specific…
Are u happy with him??
Is he loving you the right way??
Are u confused about anything??
Hi my name is godswill I have been in long distance relationship with a girl but I got feeling that she will leave me one day and she never post my pic one day instead she posted her ex pic guys what will I do
She doesn’t love you…posting her ex’s picture is disrespectful to what you both share!!!
Hi my name is c’nae and I been talking to this boy who is the same age as me since December 19 2020 of last year. It’s been going really well. He sends me messages everyday and never stood me wrong. He forgave me when I made a mistake and didn’t bash me like I thought he would’ve. I honestly believe he love and cares about me. We never met but we talked on the phone. The only thing is he is from Jamaica and I’m from Louisana. I would love to see him some day.
I’m so glad I came across this thread, I met my bf via a dating site and we’ve been dating for 2months + now. He’s talked about visiting me when the lockdown gets eased and stuff, we’ve even talked about out future on Many occasions. He’s told me that he’ll always be open and honest with me. But sometimes I still find him online on the dating site. I’m confused. He’s told me several times that he only has eyes for me, but I don’t get why he’s still on the site. I know I shouldn’t be spying on him seeing as it breaks my heart thinking he might be talking to other women. I would appreciate it if anyone can give their opinion on this. Wouldn’t mind disclosing more about our relationship
We met on Facebook last year December I am from another country. We started on the good n o t e but things where not ok so in January we decided to take some space. We got back in March and things are going pretty ok, I think he like loves me and is trying I like him a lot because we share a lot in common, we we usually talk about anything and everything and I enjoy his company because whenever I’m talking to him the chemistry between us is very strong and I think we have a good connection but up to now we haven’t defined our relationship every time I talk about it he always tells me not to worry about it and I shouldn’t be overthinking as long as he loves me and we have each other. Should I worry?
LDR is a really tricky thing, not defining the relationship is hindering u both (u especially)
He says he loves u and I’m guessing u do too…u both should define it and know d next step to take.. Thanks!!!
Pretty much from the start we discussed what we both wanted in the relationship…We just relax and enjoy the time we share together…I guess it’s been a more “go where it takes you” kind of approach…We know this is not easy so we don’t put any demands on each other…It’s nice because he has his freedom to do what he likes, and I have mine…I don’t read into anything, I just enjoy our talks, and yes, the phone sex, as well…I am planning a trip to his hometown in October, and I really look forward to it…š
im in an ldr with my bf and it’s been almost a year. we had a big fight a few months back bcz he couldnt give me his time and i felt ignored. but after a couple of months i let him in. he said that he was so sorry and he didn’t want to hurt me any further, when asked about why he left. but now even after we’re back together, i miss him more. i know he’s super busy with his work schedules, but i miss him. we mostly text each other and exchange photos and very very rarely video call. what should i do if i think about him all day and miss him really badly. his work timing is totally bad that i wake up when i go to sleep, i have to stay up really late to converse and its okay with me. but sometimes i feel like he doesnt love me or care for me. ok im freaking out!!! plz somebody help me…
Take heart sometimes love have many challenges but you must be very strong
Hello have been in a relationship for years now with a classmate of mine, but when we finished high school she traveled out of the city to another city, ever since then it turned to a Ldr, but yeah I always have doubt about her,cause I feel am the one who do all the caring, weāve had about 5 break ups now but I always end up begging her to come back, after I asked for a break up, the worse part is she isnāt even bothered when I ask for a break up, and I really do love her, I wish she knows how much I love her
Hi. Im Louisa, curently with LDR. i met my bf thru dating site. Happy to read this article about signs. Anyway were 2 yrs now Everyday we talk, and chat from time to time. For 2 yrs he never missed a chance of texting and calling me. He is straight forward guy, sweet and we really have lots of common, interms of interest and goals. He plan to come and meet me in person when covid situation is fine. We always talk about our plans for our future. He proposed to me and i said yes. But he always telling me i wanna meet you first and then we will talk about wedding. I know he loves me the way i do. But why i feel so worried that he will change his plans and feelings when we meet. I dont know why i feel so insecure. eventhough i didnt see any reasons to feel jealous or insecure. He always makes me feel special, he always assure me he loves me so much. Pls… i need advise. Am i just being paranoid?
I am in LDR situation now. We first met and talked in online game. I didn’t even knew we were in the same clan until I quit that clan. I was very depressed that time when he talked to me and I have no one to talk to either. And sometimes talking to strangers is easy since you will never knew if they judged you or not. That was the start of our everything. The thing is, I am married. The cause of my depressed was my husband. I told him about it (that I am married). Still he pursue me. And I have many first with him too. I feel so loved and treasured. I was his first girlfriend, though I did not believe it but he always insisted that I am. He communicate with me every single day. He always give me his time. He always value me and always asked me how was my day. Always told me that he love me and miss me. He talked about his future with me. I cannot respond him to that because we both know we have no future together. He was very optimistic of the relationship that we had. Judge me all you want but I never ever felt this feeling before. No one ever spend his entire day/night with me despite our time gap. I am 4 hours ahead than his. He woke up at 4:00 am his time there so he can talked to me. It feels like I am inlove for the first time. Please help me what to do. I wanted to be selfish for atleast once in my life. But this is a very big sin. And it hurts so much thinking we will not talk ever again.
I am in a LDR with my man for about 2 months now,we send texts,nude pictures and even videos….we are still getting to know each other though.am just hoping it ends up in a good way..is it wrong for us to send nude pictures and videos to each other?
It’s not too wrong but it depend , u understand that person well
Hi guys, I’m kinda in the same situation too, I started dating my LDR GF November 22, 2020 and we watched anime and called everyday and slept on the phone everyday too all the way until June 4th, 2021. And things has been different and been putting me in doubts and stressing me out bc I miss those things we did everyday. And now she’s busy most of the time, we do text Good morning text and good night text too and talk here and there about our day and all and that we love each other. But it feels like I’m putting so much more effort in the relationship now that it’s making me sad and worried imma lose her. We used to be 50/50 but now it’s like unlevel. She used to reply to my text more often too and now it’s like a waiting game. Oh and also now she don’t really don’t wanna call anymore and if she does its rare or if I call her unexpectedly she might answer. But I don’t do that as much because I feel like a burden on her. I love her so much and care for you. I’m so committed to her. I just really hope she feels the same. I’ve sent her gifts to show her how much I love her. And she appreciates it and loves it, but I just got so many doubts, that it hurts and makes me emotionally drained. Can u girls give me advice plz?
Hope you moved on now… Definitely that girl isn’t for you..
I am thankful i came across in here. I met my boyfriend on a app and we are 4 months already knowing each other, actually i can’t consider it as a dating app because its like an instagram or facebook, that you can meet other people from time to time, so as we met we talked until we became in relationship, he told me always that he loves me so much to the point we talked about marriage that he wanted big family from but i have questions in my mind because we dont talk other things like what we like, what we love etc… we always talked how much he loves me, how much he missed me and all but i can see his profile in that app that he is chatting with others girls and lately there are times that he just or seen my message and sometimes it takes 2 days before he reply. and it hurts me but i did not tell him because i told myself i will give him his space but its hurting me. but he also reached out for me when i reversed in not talking to him. but i felt being unwanted. i dont know i can’t confront him because we were just fresh.. but its so confusing because he always talked to me about getting married that one day we will meet here in my country and he also dedicate to me his favorite song..
can anyone tell me what to do.. because its squeezing my heart.. my mind says i must let go but my heart says try one more time… āŗ
I need some help š my boyfriend and i are 18 years old coming up on our 1 year togetherā¦ neither of us have been in a relationship this long and itās like when we are together, everything just clicks so wonderfully, we are so emotional, affectionate, goofy, and intoxicated with eachotherā¦ we always talk about a future togetherā¦ i made a decision to move away with my family to the other side of the country for college, and he stayed behind, I havenāt seen him in almost a month and i already feel so depressed and anxious without himā¦ I feel like iām being way more clingy than him and way more sad about the whole thing, and recently we had a talk about how everything just feels off, and our interactions are just lacking the same emotional edge it had when we were together a month agoā¦ idk what to do, my heart aches and i want this to work, but itās like my brain is preparing me for the worst heartbreak every
I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been I’m a LDR for 8months. I feel his love for me and I love him too. We text and call but never video chat. We are meant to meet soon but I feel bothered that we never video chat. We share photos with each other. He asked to talk to my mom and he did. Sometimes he does reply to texts but he endeavors to call and we talk about everything. He provides when I need anything and pays my bills. We are in 2 different continents. I feel scared sometimes
I need some advice. My boyfriend and I meant on a dating app in 2021 and have been in a LDR for 8months. Right after we exchanged contacts on the site, he asked to leave the site (the both of us) so we could pursue each other because he wanted a committed relationship and so we both left the site. I revisited the site time after time just to be sure he closed his profile which he had actually done. We would chat and he would reply soon but we have at time difference of 9 hrs so with time he barely repliedto my texts although he always never missed a call. I feel his love for me and I love him too. We text and call but never video chat or talk about sex which really bothers me . It feels weird to me think about relationships in general. We are meant to meet soon but I feel bothered that we never video chat. Also he travelled to a near by country to see his family then later will come over to mine after, but he keeps postponing his visit. He always explains the reasons why and feels genuine. We share photos with each other from personal to family. He asked to talk to my mom and he did. Sometimes he doesn’t reply to texts but he endeavors to call and we talk about everything. He provides when I need anything and pays my bills. We are in 2 different continents. I feel scared sometimes and paranoid. Is it because there is an age difference between us or is there something wrong. I am 26yrs and he is 39yrs. Both of us have neither been married nor have children.
Hi, I have a guy for 9 , I just met once, but till now we still chatting but my problem is I donāt know if he have a feeling for me, he helped my problema when it comes to my kids, but still curious 9 years of knowing each other but donāt know if he likes me. I am just waiting him to say even one word what his feeling for me. Waiting till now.
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I have been in ldr for 3 to 4 years, we knew each other for 20 years. This year I was able to visit him then we have talk some serious matter. he wanted me to apply job to his country 1st to see if i could adapt because he felt that i couldnt adapt. also he mention that he was unsure of me and wanted to know if we are compatible and what will be the future problem. i dont know what to dom?